Nrog rau kev tuag lub txim, kev rho tawm ib leeg hauv kev saib xyuas ib leeg yog suav tias yog ib qho kev ua txhaum hnyav tshaj plaws. Nws tseem phem dua thaum tus neeg pub dawb rau qee qhov laj thawj tsis tuaj yeem tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus. Txawm hais tias lub hom phiaj twg los xij tus neeg ua raws, nws yooj yim heev kom ua tiav lawv yog tias koj ua raws qee txoj cai yooj yim.
Peb txhua tus tau muaj kev sib txuas lus ib zaug nrog cov neeg uas paub qhov tseeb rau lawv tus kheej thiab zoo li ntxim ntseeg thiab muaj hmoo. Tsis ntseeg, ib tug neeg muaj qhov peev xwm txij thaum yug los, tab sis koj yuav tsum tsis txhob hlawv nrog kev khib - yog tias koj sim me ntsis, koj tuaj yeem txhim kho tag nrho cov yeeb yam no hauv koj tus kheej.
Qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev xav thawj zaug
Nws siv sijhawm li 40 feeb nkaus rau ib tus neeg los tsim kev pom thawj qhov kev xav. Txawm hais tias qhov kev tshoov siab thawj zaug tau ua tsis raug lossis hloov mus rau qhov raug, nws raug khij rau hauv subconscious tau ntev thiab xyaum tsis cia qiv nws tus kheej kom hloov. Yog li ntawd, txawm tias nce mus ntawm qhov tsis ncaj ncees lawm, koj yuav tsum ua kev rau siab rau koj tus kheej thiab sim ua phooj ywg yam tsawg kawg hauv thawj feeb ntawm kev paub. Kev hais txog qhov tsos yeej tsis yog qhov muaj txiaj ntsig, qhov tseeb tias lawv "tau ntsib los ntawm lawv cov khaub ncaws" tau ntev dhau los paub rau txhua tus thiab txawm tias muaj kev tswj hwm los ua rau laj.
Kev hais lus thiab kev hais lus
Tseem ceeb tshaj, kev xav tob txog ib tus neeg yog tsim nkaus xwb los ntawm qhov nws hais lus li cas, nws ua li cas hais meej thiab qhia meej nws cov kev xav. Yog li, txhawm rau txhim kho koj hom kev hais lus, tsim nyog rau kev sib txuas lus nrog cov neeg uas muaj kev hais lus zoo. Nws tseem pab tau kom tsuas yog mloog lawv thiab kawm. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb nyeem ntawv, tsawg kawg 10 nplooj ntawv nyob rau txhua hnub. Zoo dua, ua nws nrov nrov.
Tus cwj pwm nyob hauv zej zog
Nco ntsoov qhov koj ua lossis hais, lossis tsawg kawg yog ua piv txwv. Tsis txhob siv lub ntsej muag kaw, ua haujlwm ntawm lub ntsej muag thiab lub ntsej muag.
Nws tau paub ntev tias cov ntsiab cai tseem ceeb ntawm kev sib txuas lus zoo yog:
- Ua qhov zoo, tsis muaj leej twg nyiam tus swb thiab whiners. Txhua tus neeg intuitively gravitates ntawm cov neeg muaj kev vam meej thiab kev zoo siab, vim tias lawv tus kheej xav tau.
- Qhia cov interlocutor koj nyiam thiab tsis ntshai nug cov lus nug.
- Pom qhov zoo sib xws ntawm koj tus kheej thiab interlocutor.
Yog tias koj ua raws li tag nrho cov ntsiab lus yooj yim no thiab txhim kho koj cov kev sib txuas lus, koj yuav pom tsis ntev hais tias lub qhov muag ntawm lub ntsej muag cuam tshuam nrog lub pob taws ntawm kev txaus siab thiab saib xyuas.
