Nws yooj yim dua los daws teeb meem thaum nyob ib leeg thiab muaj lub sijhawm daws nws. Tab sis yog tias muaj teeb meem tau nchuav ntawm koj lub taub hau hauv ib qho kev txuas ntxiv, ib qho tom qab, thiab tsis muaj lub sijhawm hloov tsawg kawg ib co ntawm lawv mus rau lwm tus lub xub pwg, ces koj yuav tsum coj txawv.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Tsis txhob escalate qhov teeb meem no. Qhov kev lees paub sab hauv "Kuv tuaj yeem daws tau txhua yam, tab sis kuv xav tau sijhawm rau qhov no" ua tau zoo dua li cov lus hais tias "tsis muaj dab tsi ua haujlwm, Kuv tsis tuaj yeem txeeb mus rau txhua yam." Yog li ntawd, ntau qhov nyob ntawm seb koj pom tau qhov xwm txheej zoo li cas thiab cuam tshuam nrog nws. Yog tias koj tsis tuaj yeem xav zoo, ces tsawg kawg muaj qhov tsis meej pem thiab tiag.
Kauj ruam 2
Faib cov teeb meem. Txawm hais tias qhov xwm txheej nyuaj npaum li cas, yeej muaj cov lus nug tseem ceeb thiab ceev. Qhov tseem ceeb yog txhawm rau txiav txim siab qhov chaw ntawm txhua qhov nyuaj thiab ua raws li nws. Tom qab tag nrho, yog tias cuam tshuam los ntawm qhov maj nrawm, ces qhov tseem ceeb yuav raug kev txom nyem. Yuav ua li cas nws tshwm sim (lossis tsis yog) nyob ntawm tus neeg tau xaiv.
Kauj ruam 3
Tshawb xyuas cov xwm txheej. Tsis yog khiav tawm ntawm ib sab mus rau sab hauv, zaum thiab sau cov lus teb rau cov lus nug hauv qab no:
- Dab tsi yog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm cov teeb meem thiab qhov ua rau nws tshwm sim?
- Dab tsi yog qhov phem tshaj nws tuaj yeem tig mus ua?
- Yuav ua li cas thiaj ua tau rau hauv cov xwm txheej zoo li no?
- Yuav tiv thaiv nws li cas los ntawm kev xaiv cov kev daws teeb meem lwm yam?
Teb cov lus nug no kom meej meej, kom zoo thiab tsis muaj kev xav, koj yuav to taub qhov kev taw qhia mus rau qhov twg.
Kauj ruam 4
Siv tswv yim. Qhov no tseem ceeb tshwj xeeb thaum qhov xwm txheej tsis yog saib xyuas koj nkaus xwb. Nco ntsoov tias cov neeg txheeb ze rau nws muaj txoj cai koom nrog kev sib tham txog qhov teeb meem nrog koj. Tab sis txawm tias qhov nyuaj yog ncaj qha nrog koj, tom qab ntawd kev saib sab nraud yuav tsis yog superfluous - tej zaum koj yuav hnov qhov kev daws teeb meem uas koj tsis tuaj yeem tuaj ntawm koj tus kheej vim muaj kev txhawj xeeb ntau dhau.
Kauj ruam 5
Txais kev pab. Yog tias muaj tus neeg hauv koj lub neej uas tau npaj tos los pab cawm thaum lub sijhawm twg, tom qab ntawd tsis txhob tso nws tseg. Nws tsis yog ib txwm ua tiav los daws cov teeb meem kev kub ntxhov ib leeg, tej zaum tam sim no koj xav tau kev pab sab nraud. Thiab tsis tas yuav tsum muaj qhia kev ua yeeb yam tsis ncaj ncees.
Kauj Ruam 6
Kawm yuav tos. Thaum muaj lub sijhawm los tos kom ncua, ces qhov no yuav tsum tau ua. Txwv tsis pub, koj qhov kev ua kom nrawm yuav tsuas ua rau qhov teeb meem no hnyav zuj zus, uas yuav daws tau teeb meem los ntawm nws tus kheej yam tsis muaj koj qab haus huv, tab sis koj tsuas yog tos. Yog li, tuaj yeem "tawm ntawm kev lag luam" tau ib ntus, tab sis rov qab mus kom ncav sijhawm, yog tias qhov kev cia siab tsis daws dab tsi thiab koj yuav tau ua qhov txawv.
