Muaj ntau yam xwm txheej uas peb tsuas yog xav paub yog tias ib tus neeg ua siab ncaj lossis yog tias nws dag. Qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb tsis yog hauv kev sib txuas lus txhua hnub, tab sis kuj hauv kev sib tham ua lag luam, cov rooj sib tham tseem ceeb, kev sib tham ntawm tus tswv haujlwm thiab cov neeg ua haujlwm muaj peev xwm.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Ua tib zoo mloog cov kev mob tshwm sim hauv qab no:
Lub interlocutor hnoos poob siab, nws cov tub ntxhais kawm yog cov txwv. Nws cia li pib qw, ntsais, lossis daig. Nws kev hloov pauv (hloov xim liab, me me lossis hloov daj. Tus txiv neej yog npog nrog hws, nws lub suab pauv, nws ob txhais tes yog them nrog Goose ua pob. Lub sij hawm ntawm nws lub suab thiab kev ceev ntawm kev hais lus hloov.
Txhua yam ntawm no yuav qhia tias tus neeg ntawd dag koj.
Kauj ruam 2
Tom ntej no, xyuam xim rau nws lub ntsej muag thiab tes taw.
Lub interlocutor txhob koj gaze. Nws cov kev taw yog fussy thiab tsis zoo li qub: nws tsis tuaj yeem zaum hauv ib qho chaw, kov nws cov plaub hau, ntsej muag, fiddles nrog nws cov khaub ncaws, ua rau lub plua plav tsis muaj av. Tus txiv neej rubs nws txhais tes, nyem nws tus ntiv tes tshee, tom nws daim di ncauj, nqa khoom tsis tsim nyog thiab ua si nrog lawv (sib tw tus cwj mem, ntawv foxles). Nws pheej haus luam yeeb, co nws ob txhais ceg, tsis tuaj yeem tiv taus tshee.
Saib cov phiajcim no - koj paub, tej zaum lawv dag rau koj.
Kauj ruam 3
Tam sim no mloog seb yuav tham dab tsi thiab dab tsi rau koj
Nws hais lus tsis meej rau koj txog nws txoj kev coj ncaj ncees, pheej hais tias “nws hais qhov tseeb thiab tsuas yog qhov tseeb,” thaum siv kab lus:
-Kuv muab kuv txhais tes txiav …
Hais ncaj ncaj, Kuv tsis txhob …
Kuv cog lus rau kuv kev noj qab haus huv …
Tus neeg tsis teb ncaj qha rau cov lus nug nug, tab sis ntxhoo, hais lus evasively, ua cov lus qhia. Ntxiv cov lus tsis tseem ceeb thiab tsis cuam tshuam rau nws cov lus teb. Hauv nws kev hais lus, nws ua rau ntau ruam ntawm qhov kev sau ntawv ntawm cov lus cuav thiab syntactic. Hais lus nrawm, tsis muaj paus ntsis hauv kev hais lus, "rutters".
Nov yog qhov uas koj tus neeg sib tham coj zoo, yuav tsum ceev faj - tej zaum nws dag nws.
Kauj ruam 4
Thiab qhov kawg, ua ntej koj sau ib tus neeg ua tus neeg dag, saib nws rau hauv lub neej txhua hnub. Tej zaum nws ib txwm coj zoo li no, thiab tag nrho cov "cov tsos mob ntawm kev dag" uas koj tau tshawb pom yog tshwm sim ntawm nws lub cev xeeb tub lossis kev ua tsis zoo.
