Qee zaum ib tus neeg hauv menyuam yaus, thaum tiav hluas thiab txawm tias laus los xij tuaj yeem dhau los ua qhov khoom ntawm kev thuam lossis kev tawm tsam. Yog tias, rau ib qho laj thawj lossis lwm qhov, nws rog dhau heev lawm, nco ntsoov tias qhov no yuav hla tsis dhau ntawm kev saib xyuas ntawm "tus dab" uas tsis zoo, thiab cov neeg txom nyem yuav pib hu nws ua "fattrest" lossis lwm qhov tsis txo tus npe menyuam yaus. Hauv ib qho kev sib koom ua ke, txawm tias ntawm cov pawg ntawm cov neeg ib txwm muaj, yeej ib txwm tsis yog cov neeg txawj ntse tshaj plaws uas nyiam ua kev lom zem ntawm lwm tus, qee zaum coj lawv los kua muag. Yuav ua li cas thaum muaj qhov xwm txheej zoo li no?
Piv txwv li, ib tug me nyuam kawm ntawv yuav tsum hu li cas, kev siab hlub los ntawm phooj ywg phem, ua li cas? Yog lawm, koj tuaj yeem sim tiv thaiv koj lub meej mom los ntawm kev siv dag zog yuam. Thiab qee qhov xwm txheej no yog qhov tsuas yog txoj kev tawm, alas, muaj cov neeg tsis to taub lwm hom lus. Tab sis, ua ntej, tus neeg ua phem tuaj yeem ua kom lub cev muaj zog. Thib ob, tej zaum yuav muaj ob peb ntawm lawv. Thib peb, nws yuav tsis yog tus neeg ua txhaum, tab sis tus neeg ua txhaum. Tsis txhob ntaus tus ntxhais (txawm hais tias nws yog qhov ncaj ncees)! Nyob rau hauv dav dav, nws yog tsim nyog noj lub cev muaj zog tsuas yog nyob rau hauv mob heev.
Ua ntej tshaj plaws, tus menyuam thiab nws niam nws txiv yuav tsum nkag siab meej thiab meej meej tias qhov kev tawm tsam mob siab los ntawm kev hais lus phem (npau taws thiab, ntxiv mus, kua muag) yog qhov khoom plig tiag tiag rau cov neeg uas sim nws. Thiab tus me nyuam ntau yuav qhia tau tias nws tau tawm tsam los ntawm kev hais lus phem, ntau dua qhov txaus siab thiab rau siab lawv yuav mus txuas ntxiv lawv "qias neeg". Hmoov tsis zoo, muaj cov tib neeg zoo li ntawd, koj tsis tuaj yeem khiav tawm ntawm qhov no. Raws li txoj cai, lawv "pub" ntawm lub kua muag ntawm cov neeg txawv, qhov no ntxiv ib qho kev paub zoo dua rau lawv (ntawm chav kawm, hauv lawv lub tswv yim).
Yog li no, txawm nws yuav nyuaj npaum li cas los xij, koj yuav tsum sim tswj koj tus kheej. Cov tshuaj tiv thaiv zoo tshaj plaws rau txhua qhov kev siv zog ntawm cov neeg ua txhaum cai yog kev saib tsis taus lwm tus. Tsis ntev lawv yuav nkees txog “co huab cua” hauv qhov tsis muaj txiaj ntsig, thiab lawv yuav poob qab, hloov mus nrhiav lwm tus “tus neeg raug tsim txom”.
Yog tias nws tsis tuaj yeem tiv thaiv lawv cov antics, koj tuaj yeem sim "ntaus yeej cov yeeb ncuab nrog lawv tus kheej riam phom." Tus neeg tsim txom (lossis cov ua txhaum) yeej muaj lawv "lub zog qia". Koj tsuas yog yuav tsum tau saib kom zoo thiab nrhiav kom tau. Cov neeg uas tau swm rau kev thuam lwm tus feem ntau tsis xav tias lawv tus kheej yuav yog qhov khoom ntawm kev thuam, ntxiv mus, ntse heev thiab caustic. Lub zog kev poob siab ntawm cov "dab" yuav yog thaum lawv pib hu lawv cov npe.
Zoo, yog tias txhua yam ua tsis tiav, tom qab ntawd tus menyuam yuav tsum raug xa mus rau lwm lub tsev kawm.
