Txhua tus poj niam muaj hluas nkauj. Qee lub sij hawm lawv poob rau kev hlub, thiab tom qab ntawd lawv tsis paub ua dab tsi nrog cov kev xav tsis meej. Yog li ntawd, lawv tuaj rau kev tawm tswv yim. Thiab txhua yam yuav zoo yog tias tsis yog rau … kev cai lij choj ua niam txiv thiab menyuam. Yuav ua li cas hauv qhov no? Cov lus qhia dab tsi los muab rau ib tug phooj ywg sib yuav uas tau tswj kom tau ntsib thiab nyiam lwm tus?
Nyob rau hauv qhov xwm txheej, ob qho kev qhia tawm tswv yim thiab kev txwv tsis lees txais kev pab yuav dhau los ua cov kev xav tsis meej uas tuaj yeem ua rau muaj teeb meem ntau. Hauv thawj kis, yam twg xaiv ntawm phooj ywg, nws tseem yuav plam ib tug neeg - txawm nws tus txiv lossis tus poj niam nws hlub. Qhov no txhais tau tias nws yuav muaj kev tsis txaus siab rau qhov tab tom tshwm sim, thiab leej twg yuav yog tus yuav raug liam rau qhov no? Lawm, ib tug kws pab tswv yim. Yog tias koj tsuas tsis kam tawm tswv yim dab tsi, nws yuav zoo li kev ntxeev siab. Tshuav lub sijhawm nyuaj, khiav tawm … Tus phooj ywg zoo li cas yog koj tom qab? Yog lawm, qhov xwm txheej nyuaj, tab sis tseem muaj ib txoj kev tawm ntawm nws.
Cov lus qhia tsis yog tsuas yog ua kom muab, tab sis txawm tias tsim nyog. Qhov loj tshaj plaws yog tias nws yuav tsum vague, li vague li sai tau. Koj tuaj yeem taug kev, raws li lawv hais, nyob ib ncig ntawm lub hav txwv yeem: "Nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau xav nws ua tib zoo, lub sijhawm yuav qhia, koj tsis tuaj yeem maj mus rau qhov kev txiav txim siab zaum kawg, koj yuav muaj zog npaum li cas." Lwm yam. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom tsis txhob siv cov lus xws li "ua siab ntev", "ua" lossis "tsis txhob ntshai" raws li qhov no yog cov lus qhia tshwj xeeb. Hloov ntawm lawv, ib qho yuav tsum hais: "Feem ntau lawv tsis nrawm dua, ua ntej lawv hnyav txhua yam, thiab tom qab ntawd lawv ua." Qhov no yog cov ntaub ntawv tsis muaj mob hais txog kev yuav ua li cas lwm tus neeg feem ntau ua, thiab tus phooj ywg tuaj yeem siv lawv qhov kev paub yog tias nws xav tau. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, tus kws pab tswv yim tsis txawm sim mus deb ntawm kev sib tham, ntxuav nws txhais tes lossis khiav tawm. Nws muab txoj hauv kev rau ib tus neeg los ua tib zoo xav txog txhua yam, ua nws tus kheej kev txiav txim siab, tsis muaj lub luag haujlwm rau nws.
