Nws nyuaj nyuaj li cas thaum qee tus menyuam yaus yuav lav paub nws tus kheej hauv pawg! Tsuas yog ob peb tus los ua thawj coj, tus so yog cov ntsiab lus nrog lub luag haujlwm ntawm "cov neeg ua haujlwm nruab nrab", thiab qee qhov, hmoov tsis, yog cov neeg raug ncaws tawm. Txhawm rau pab cov hluas yoog nyob rau hauv ib puag ncig hauv zej zog, kom tswj nws tus kheej kom haum rau pab pawg, kev txiav txim siab ntawm tus kheej yog qhov tsim nyog. Ob peb cov lus qhia yuav pab koj tsim nws.
Thawj cov lus qhia
Them sai sai rau kev thuam! Tom qab txhua yam, koj tuaj yeem nrhiav ntau yam laj thawj rau lawv - piv txwv li, lub npe hu ua tso npe dhau los, tsawg dhau los lossis, hloov pauv, kev loj hlob ntau dhau, cov yam ntxwv ntawm daim duab thiab qhov muag muag, tsis pom kev zoo, muaj qhov tsis nyiam nyiam, thiab lwm yam lwm yam. Lub ntsiab lus ntawm no yog tsis xav tau kev sib cav, tsis muaj teeb meem yuav ua li cas. Koj yuav tsum tau kawm kom zoo saib twj ywm cov neeg ua txhaum hauv lub qhov muag thiab tsaws koj lub xub pwg nyom. Txhua yam! Tom qab ob lossis peb qhov kev sim, tus hais daws yuav poob txhua qhov kev xav mus txuas ntxiv - tom qab tag nrho, lawv xav evoke cov kev xav tsis zoo, kom txaus siab rau qhov ua kom poob ntsej muag ntawm cov neeg tsis muaj zog. Thiab txij li thaum lub hom phiaj tseem tsis tau tiav, tom qab ntawd tsis muaj kev xav sim.
Thib ob qhov kawg
Tsis txhob ntshai sawv ntsug hauv qee txoj kev los tiv thaiv tom qab ntawm cov phooj ywg. Cov plaub hau tsis txawv, cov khaub ncaws yuav tso cai rau koj kom koj sib txawv ntawm lwm tus - qhov tseem ceeb tsis yog kom overdo nws! Cov qauv tsis raws thawj zaug ua rau muaj kev txaus siab, thiab tom qab ntawd muaj lub siab xav qog. Nws tau pom ntev ntev: yog tias, piv txwv li, ib tus menyuam kawm ntawv hauv tsev kawm ntawv ntawm qhov chaw so tsis koom nrog kev ua si dav dav, tab sis nqis mus thiab pib ua nws tus kheej - kos duab, ua si ib qho kev sib tw, thiab lwm yam. - tom qab ntawd chav kawm West yuav sai sib sau ua ke puag ncig nws. Tsim nyog sim!
Thib peb ntsis
Saib koj tus kheej! Tus neeg tsis paub qhov tseeb yog tus yuam sij rau tus yam ntxwv zoo ntawm lwm tus. Tab sis tib neeg tuaj yeem tsim txom, piv txwv li, los ntawm kev ua pa tsw phem, hnia, pom ntawm gnawed ntsia hlau, tawm hws, thiab lwm yam. Txhua yam no yuav tsum raug tswj! Koj tuaj yeem ua ib qho kev nco tshwj xeeb - dab tsi koj yuav tsum tau kuaj xyuas hauv koj lub ntsej muag, thiab saib nws ua ntej tawm hauv tsev.
Plaub lub taub
Ua kom koj lub taub hau siab. Tsis txhob swb, khav theeb ncaj lub xub pwg, tsa koj lub puab tsaig - qhov no yog daim duab ntawm tus neeg ntseeg tus kheej! Koj yuav tsum kawm saib kom ncaj qha rau hauv lub qhov muag ntawm lub interlocutor thaum tham. Lub ntsej muag luag ntxhi yuav ua tiav qhov "muaj koob muaj npe" zoo, tshem tawm txawm tias cov neeg tawm tsam tsis zoo.
