Lub peev xwm "liab", uas yog, hais lus zoo nkauj, tau ib txwm muaj txiaj ntsig hauv Lavxias. Lo lus "fluff" ua ntej dhau los tsis nqa lub ntsiab lus thuam thiab tsis pom zoo, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, tus neeg uas tau txais lub npe zoo li ntawd tau txaus siab rau nws! Thiab hauv ntau lwm lub tebchaws, kev hais lus kuj tseem raug puag ncig nrog kev hwm thiab kev hwm. Vim tias tib neeg to taub zoo: txhua tus tuaj yeem hais lus, tab sis hais lus kom ntseeg, raws sijhawm, thiab tsuas yog rau kev lag luam - qhov peev xwm no tsis tau muab rau txhua tus!
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Ua ntej tshaj plaws, kom meej meej txhais tau hais tias dab tsi raws nraim koj xav tau piav qhia rau tus interlocutor thiab dab tsi tshwm sim kom ua tiav. Pib sib tham "ntawm random" tsis tau npaj yog qhov ua yuam kev loj. Tsuas yog tus neeg uas muaj tus nplaig "zoo" thiab tus neeg paub tseeb tuaj yeem ua tiav kev ua tiav tau zoo, thiab ntawm no peb tab tom hais txog tsuas yog neeg tuag.
Kauj ruam 2
Xav txog dab tsi sib cav koj yuav muab nyob rau hauv txhawb koj txoj hauj lwm, dab tsi tawm tsam tus interlocutor yuav muaj, thiab koj yuav teb rau lawv li cas. Ntawd yog, sim xav ua ntej ntawm kev sib tham.
Kauj ruam 3
Nco ntsoov tsis txhob ua yeeb yam tsis zoo, categorical tone! Txawm hais tias koj tab tom tham txog feem ntau yooj yim thiab zoo-paub yam. Sim kom tsis txhob muaj cov kab lus "Kuv xav tias", "Kuv paub meej", "Kuv hais." Ntau zoo dua yuav lub suab: "Nws zoo nkaus li rau kuv", lossis "Yog tias kuv tsis yuam kev." Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, tsis txhob yws yws, tsis txhob "tsoo ib ncig ntawm lub hav zoov," uas yog, hais kom meej meej thiab taw tes rau. Tus neeg hais lus paub cai, nrog kev txwv, tsis muaj cov lus tsis tsim nyog, evokes kev ua siab zoo, thiab tus neeg uas tsis meej pem yuav tsis nkag siab qhov teeb meem - tsuas yog rov qab.
Kauj ruam 4
Sim nrhiav kom paub ua ntej hauv kev npau suav tus neeg uas koj yuav nrog tham, yog tias nws nyuam qhuav muaj teeb meem. Hauv qhov no, nyob ntawm qhov muaj cai zam, ncua koj kev sib tham kom txog lub sijhawm tsim nyog dua.
Kauj ruam 5
Ntawm thawj lo lus ntawm tus interlocutor, sim xyuas seb qhov kev sib tham twg yuav yog qhov zoo tshaj rau koj. Yog tias nws teb ua lus luv, txwv cov nqe lus, koj yuav tsum hais lus tsis tseem ceeb, tsis txhob cuam tshuam cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb. Yog tias nws hais meej tsis kam tham txog lub neej, tom qab ntawv koj kuj tuaj yeem tso dag, qhia txog qee zaj dab neeg luv luv, hais txog xwm txheej lossis tshwm sim ntawm lub neej. Tab sis tsis txhob nqa tawm! Txhua yam nyob rau hauv kev sim.
