Txawm tias ntawm tus neeg muaj kev hlub, kev sib cav nyob rau kev sib cav tseem tsis tau muab cais tawm. Tab sis qhov no tsis txhais tau tias kev cog lus hla trifles yog qhov qub thiab tsis muaj kev phom sij. Kev sib ntau zuj zus tuaj yeem rhuav tshem kev sib raug zoo thiab tua kev hlub. Yog tias koj tsis xav cia muaj qhov no, txheeb xyuas cov laj thawj vim li cas koj ho sib cav nrog tus neeg koj hlub rau cov xwm txheej me.
Vim li cas tiag
Quarrels hla trifles yog raws cov teeb meem loj, yam tseem ceeb. Thiab tob cia, txawm tias brawlers lawv tus kheej paub qhov no. Nws hloov tawm tias tib neeg cog lus rau qhov tsis txaus ntseeg es tsis txhob tham txog cov teeb meem tiag tiag uas lawv muaj hauv ob peb khub. Tab sis txawm hais tias lawv tau ua qhov yog, tsis tso pa tawm, ua ntshav me me, tseem yog lus nug.
Qhov tsis muaj peev xwm zam txim, tsis muaj peev xwm muab tau rau, kom muaj kev sib fim - cov no feem ntau yog vim li cas tib neeg thiaj li sib cav sib ceg ntau yam me me. Tej zaum muaj qhov sib cav sib ceg nyob hauv khub ntawm qhov tsis nco qab lawm. Ib tus khub xav kom yeej dhau qhov sib tau, ua kom nws tus kheej tus cwj pwm thiab kev cai ntawm nws. Txoj haujlwm no tsis muaj txiaj ntsig, vim nws tsis tuaj yeem ua rau lub txiaj ntsig zoo.
Qee lub sij hawm tib neeg siv kev pom qhov tsis tseem ceeb tsuas yog kev zam txim rau rhuav tshem cov neeg hlub. Lub siab tsis zoo, hnub tsis zoo, teeb meem ntawm kev ua haujlwm, qaug zog cuam tshuam rau tus neeg, thiab nws saib rau tus neeg raug mob. Lawm, qhov no tsis yog ua rau tus neeg. Tsis xav daws nws cov teeb meem lossis qee zaum so, nws lees nws tus kheej ntawm qhov tsis txaus siab ntawm tus khub lossis tus khub.
Kho qhov tshuaj tiv thaiv
Txhawm rau kom muaj kev sib raug zoo, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb kom paub tias kev ua txhaum me los sis, ntawm qhov tsis sib thooj, tseem ceeb qhov no los yog qhov kev sib cav no. Thaum koj yuav los rhuav thiab cem koj tus khub lossis tus khub rau cov khaub ncaws tsis huv lossis lub khob uas tsis ntxuav, tso tseg thiab txiav txim seb nws puas tseem ceeb rau koj npaum li ntawd. Yog teb tau tias yog, txiav txim yog vim li cas. Tom qab tag nrho, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tias koj yog neb ob leeg noj qab haus huv thiab hlub ib leeg, thiab trifles yuav tsum tsis txhob tsaus koj txoj kev zoo siab.
Kawm paub txais cov neeg koj hlub rau lawv yog leej twg. Nws tsis yooj yim, tab sis nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev rau txoj kev zoo siab thiab kev sib raug zoo ntev ntev. Nkag siab tias nws yuav muaj qhov sib txawv ua ntej, ua qhov tsis zoo thiab ua qhov tsis zoo. Tsis txhob ua kom zoo dua rau qhov koj xaiv lossis tus koj xaiv. Kev hlub tsis tsuas yog lub meej mom ntawm tus neeg hlub, tab sis qee qhov tsis zoo hauv nws tus cwj pwm. Thiab nyob rau hauv dav dav, tsis txhob kho lawv raws li qhov tsis zoo, tab sis xav txog lawv li nta.
Yog tias tus neeg koj hlub pom txhaum nrog koj hla kev trifles, tsis txhob pib sib cav. Sim ua txhua yam kom huv si thiab tsis txhob ua rau tej yam tsis zoo. Nco ntsoov tias, neb ob leeg puav leej muaj feem xyuam rau yam tshwm sim hauv koj tus txij nkawm. Thaum kev tsis sib haum xeeb tshwm sim hauv nws vim yog qhov tsis tseem ceeb, ob tus neeg pib sib cav sib ceg thiab tus uas tsis nres nws yog tus thuam. Tsis txhob ntxhov siab txog cov kev tsis nkag siab zoo ntawd. Txhua yam ntawm cov txheej txheem tsis tseem ceeb tawm nws qhov cim ntawm koj txoj kev sib raug.
