Kev thuam nws txawv: kev pab tau thiab hais lus tsis txaus, ua tsis tau zoo thiab muaj pov thawj. Thiab rau ntau tus neeg, qhov teeb meem ntawm kev pom ntawm lwm tus neeg li kev xav yog mob hnyav heev. Nws yog qhov tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyuaj rau cov lus los ntawm sab nraud hais txog kev muaj tswv yim, kev ua haujlwm, tsos lossis lwm yam, cov neeg uas muaj kev cuam tshuam yooj yim, zoo siab, cov uas twb muaj kev tsis txaus ntseeg tus kheej muaj peev xwm. Koj tuaj yeem kawm paub lees txais cov lus thuam yooj yim dua li cas?
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom kawm cais tawm los ntawm txoj kev xav lub ntsiab lus tseem ceeb zais hauv kev thuam. Ntau zaus, yog tias cov lus hais thiab cov lus hais raug tsim txom hnyav lossis hais tawm ntawm lub sijhawm thaum ib tus neeg tsis xav txog nws, tej zaum muaj kev ntxhov siab loj heev yuav ua raws. Cov kev xav sab hauv, qhov kev tawm tsam tsis txaus ntseeg feem ntau tsis pub pom qhov sib cav sib txuas ua ke uas tau txais kev thuam. Yog li ntawd, thaum lub sijhawm nyuam qhuav dhau los, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob sim teb txhua yam lossis sai li sai tau pib liam koj tus kheej thiab ntxiv kev thuam. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tsum muab koj tus kheej los ua kom txias, kom zom qhov koj hnov. Cov kauj ruam no yog qhov tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau cov neeg muaj peev xwm xav thiab los ntawm qhov kev xav heev. Qee zaum, txawm tias tom qab cov lus tawm tsam, muaj qee qhov tseeb zais cia, uas tsim nyog mloog, mus hla koj kev tawm tsam sab hauv. Txhawm rau kom zoo siab rau kev npau taws tsis zoo, nws raug nquahu kom hloov koj lub vev xaib ib ntus rau lwm lub ncauj lus, cuam tshuam koj tus kheej thiab tsom ntsoov rau qee qhov haujlwm. Rau qee tus neeg, kev tawm mus sab nraum zoov, suab paj nruag, thiab nyeem ntawv pab ua rau lawv lub siab nqig.
Koj tsuas yog yuav tsum tau teb rau qhov kev thuam thuam los ntawm kev sau tus kheej. Hauv txhua txhua hnub hauv lub neej thiab chaw hauv Is Taws Nem, koj tuaj yeem ntsib cov neeg sib txawv kiag li. Thiab ntau zaus dab tsi yog conventionally hu ua kev thuam yog qhov tseeb network trolling, muaj lub siab xav ua tiag tiag los yog ua txhaum. Feem ntau, cov neeg uas cia lawv tus kheej hais cov lus tsis tsim nyog hais txog lwm tus neeg sim ua lawv tus kheej li no. Qhov no yuav tsum nco ntsoov. Nws tsim nyog lees thiab xav txog lwm tus neeg cov lus thuam yog tias lawv tau txais los ntawm tus neeg uas zoo li tus sau ntawv lossis yog tus kws tshaj lij lossis tus kws tshaj lij hauv ib qho haujlwm tshwj xeeb. Yog li, piv txwv li, nws tsim nyog mloog cov lus thiab lus ntuas ntawm cov neeg hlub, niam txiv, phooj ywg.
Nws yog qhov tsim nyog los txo cov kev xav tau ntawm tus kheej. Nws yuav nyuaj heev rau kev ua tiav qhov xwm txheej no rau cov neeg ntxim rau "tus tub ntxhais kawm tau zoo", mus rau txoj kev zoo tag nrho. Txawm li cas los xij, koj yuav tsum tau ua haujlwm ntawm koj tus kheej hauv cheeb tsam no. Txwv tsis pub, koj tuaj yeem tuaj yeem sai sai rau lub xeev kev xav lossis kub hnyiab lossis fim nrog kev nyuaj siab tag nrho. Tus txiv neej tsis muaj peev xwm ua tau zoo rau txhua tus thiab txhua tus neeg. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom txais yuav qhov tseeb uas nyob hauv lub neej yuav ib txwm muaj lwm tus neeg zoo dua, muaj peev xwm dua, uas nyob hauv tus kheej lossis ib cheeb tsam ntawm kev tsim muaj yeej ib txwm muaj cov neeg uas muaj kev paub ntau dua, uas muaj sijhawm zoo los tso lawv cov kev txawj thiab muaj peev xwm. Ua kom pom tseeb rau koj tus kheej yuav tsis tsuas tiv thaiv koj ntawm kev tsim nyog thiab nqig rau kev thuam ntawm sab nraud. Txoj kev paub no tseem yuav ua rau koj ntxiv kev thuam tus kheej rau koj tus kheej, cem koj tus kheej rau qhov ua yuam kev thiab ua tsis tiav, tsis tso cai rau koj kawm ntawm koj qhov ua yuam kev. Lub neej ntawm txhua tus neeg muaj xws li ib ce thiab downs, qhov no yuav tsum to taub thiab lees txais. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom kawm qhuas koj tus kheej txawm hais tias ua tiav me me thiab saib yooj yim dua ntawm lub ntiaj teb nyob ib puag ncig koj. Hloov kev xav ntawm lwm tus neeg qhov kev ntsuas yog ib qho tsim nyog los ua kom ntseeg tau tias koj nyob tau yooj yim dua nrog kev thuam. Thaum kawg, ib tus yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias txhua tus neeg muaj nws tus kheej saj, nws tus kheej nyiam.
Kev soj ntsuam ntawm qhov tau txais kev thuam thiab kev txheeb xyuas qhov tseeb. Yog li ntawd cov lus tawm sab nraud tsis tau pom tias yog qee yam tsis zoo, tsis txhob saib tsis txaus siab rau kev nqis tes ua thiab kev loj hlob, ib qho yuav tsum kawm kom paub lub ntsiab lus tseem ceeb hauv kev thuam tau txais. Tsim nyog nug koj tus kheej, vim li cas tus neeg no lossis tus neeg ntawd hais tau lub hom phiaj? Nws cov lus qhia tau zoo li cas? Yuav ua li cas yog tias koj mloog cov lus, yog tias koj ua raws li cov lus ntuas? Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob nrhiav qhov tsis pom zoo rau koj tus kheej lossis sim tiv thaiv koj tus kheej tam sim ntawd, lossis cuam tshuam rau ib qho kev thuam tseem ceeb. Qhov zoo yog qhov zoo uas qhov kev huam yuaj lossis cov kws sau ntawv tsis xav ua txhaum txhua yam, txhua lo lus tau hais tawm tsuas yog siv nrog kev pab hauv kev txhim kho. Yog tias hauv chav kawm ntawm qhov kev txheeb xyuas nws tsis tuaj yeem nrhiav qhov tseem ceeb, qhov ntawd yog qhov laj thawj xav txog seb nws puas tsim nyog mloog cov kev thuam no, seb nws tau hais tiag tiag nrog lub siab xav pab thiab qhia qee yam, taw tes tawm cov kev ua yuam kev ntawd, yog tias kho tau, nws yuav muaj peev xwm ua tiav qee qhov tshiab.
