Ntshai yog ib feem ntawm qhov kev xav siab ntawm ib tug neeg. Nws ib txwm nyob ntawd, tab sis ib tug neeg pab nws, thiab ib tug neeg tau kawm paub tsis txog nws. Daws nrog kev ntshai yog yooj yim - koj tsuas yog xav tau nws heev.
Yeej tuaj yeem muaj ntau qhov laj thawj tsis txaus ntseeg rau peb: peb ntshai rau cov neeg hlub, peb ntshai poob haujlwm, lossis peb tsis ntshai saib dua li lwm tus. Feem ntau, kev ntshai yog irrational thiab tsis ua rau muaj txiaj ntsig tiag, tshwj tsis yog kev ntxhov siab ntawm peb lub cev. Txhawm rau tiv thaiv lub cev los ntawm kev txom nyem, nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau mus kho qhov no, ntawm chav kawm, kev xav tsis zoo. Dab tsi yuav tsum tau ua rau qhov no?
Koj tuaj yeem kov yeej kev ntshai, kev ntxhov siab thiab ntxhov siab los ntawm kev sim ua qhov xwm txheej uas ua rau koj ntshai. Cia peb hais tias koj qhov kev ntshai ntshai yog qhov ntshai tsam raug ntaus ntawm lub tsheb. Xav txog qhov teeb meem no hauv xim. Xav txog koj qhov kev xav zoo li cas rau lub sijhawm no. Ua nws li yog tias qhov teeb meem no twb tau tshwm sim. Qhov kev ntshai yuav rov ua dua.
Ua pa tawm kom yog. Piv txwv li, koj yuav tsum tau mus nyob rau theem nyeem ntawv kev hais lus, tab sis koj tau rov qab los ntawm kev ntshai ntawm kev hais lus. Tsis txhob poob rau nws. Kaw koj ob lub qhov muag, ua pa maj mam thiab sib sib zog nqus, suav txhua yam pa tawm lossis tso pa tawm ntawm koj tus kheej. Ntseeg kuv, tom qab ib ntus ntawd kev ntshai yuav ploj mus, thiab koj yuav muaj kev ntseeg siab.
Lub cev, tsis txhob ntshai. Qhov no txhais tau tias koj lub cev yuav tsum tawm tsam qhov kev xav tsis ruaj khov. Coj tus cwj pwm yooj yim, ib yam li nyob rau lub sijhawm zoo tshaj plaws ntawm lub neej, thiab tom qab ntawd ib pliag tom qab lub siab yuav nyob ruaj khov, thiab kev ntshai yuav tawm ntawm koj.
Ua haujlwm lossis kis las. Kev thau koj tus kheej nrog kev tawm dag zog lossis lub hlwb yuav pab tshem kev ntshai thiab tshem koj ntawm kev xav tsis zoo. Tsis tas li ntawd, cov kev ua si no tuaj yeem muab cov kev xav zoo uas yuav tshem tawm kev ntshai los ntawm kev nco qab irrevocably.
Yog li, txawm hais tias kev ntshai yuav tuaj yeem muaj zog heev, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob muab nws tso rau hauv lub neej. Ua neej nyob rau hnub no, tsis nco txog yav dhau los - nws zoo li qub, nws tsis tuaj yeem rov qab los, tsis txhob xav txog dab tsi yuav tshwm sim tag kis - txhua yam tuaj yeem hloov tau.
