Feem ntau peb ntsib qhov tseeb uas peb tsis tuaj yeem nrhiav cov lus zoo los teb. Thiab nws tsis muaj qhov tseeb kiag li - rau kev thuam, kom muaj kev sib tham, lossis tsuas yog txhawb tus neeg ntawd. Thiab teeb meem feem ntau tsis nyob hauv lus, tab sis hauv peb tus kheej. Cov lus zais yog nyob rau hauv peb qhov kev txawj ntse tseem ceeb - muaj peev xwm mloog, lub peev xwm xav tswv yim thiab lub peev xwm hais lus, tsis xav.
Tsim nyog
tus interlocutor rau kev xyaum
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Kawm kom mloog zoo thiab tuav kev sib tham.
Yuav kom nrhiav tau txoj hauv kev rau tus interlocutor, nws yog qhov tsim nyog los hais lus nrog nws los ntawm nws daim npav ntawm qhov tseem ceeb thiab meej hauv nws cov lus, thiab rau qhov no nws yog qhov tsim nyog los ua ntej cia nws hais tawm. Tom qab ntawd, nug ob peb lo lus nug hauv los txhawm rau thaum kawg ua nws daim ntawv qhia thiab pib tham nrog nws siv nws cov qauv hais lus thiab kab lus ntawm kab lus.
Kauj ruam 2
Xav logically.
Daim ntawv "A" yog tom qab ntawd yog tsab ntawv "B", tab sis nws kuj txhais tau tias thaum kawg txhua yam yuav xaus nrog tsab ntawv "Kuv." Qhov no yog cov tswvyim yooj yim tshaj plaws rau kev twv seb qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev sib tham vim yog cov lus hais ntawm qee cov lus, thiab nws yuav tsum tau muab xam tam sim ntawd ntawm koj lub taub hau, thiab ncaj qha hauv koj lub taub hau, thiab tsis hais hauv lus.
Kauj ruam 3
Xu sab laj sab hauv.
Kev ua kom paub tseeb ua rau kev txiav txim siab tsuas yog thaum koj muaj sijhawm xav lossis thaum ib tus neeg teb koj - hauv qhov no, koj yuav tsum khaws cov ntaub ntawv ib txhij thiab txheeb xyuas qhov kev txiav txim siab raug. Thaum koj teb nthawv ntaws, muaj qhov yuav zoo dua uas koj cov lus yuav ntaus tus cim dua li koj xav txog txhua lo lus.
