Raws li koj paub, lawv tau txais tos txais los ntawm lawv cov khaub ncaws. Thawj qhov kev xav, uas yog qhov pheej ua ntev tshaj plaws, yog tsim nyob hauv thawj feeb lossis txawm tias thawj feeb ntawm kev sib txuas lus nrog tus neeg tsis paub. 80% ntawm qhov kev xav no yog ua raws nraim ntawm qhov pom thiab tsis coj tus cwj pwm. Vim li no, qhov tshwm sim ntawm ib qho xwm txheej tshwj xeeb feem ntau ua lub luag haujlwm tseem ceeb dua li kev sib txuas lus tom qab.
Sawv Ntxov
Txhawm rau ua kom muaj kev txaus siab thaum koj pom thawj zaug, koj yuav tsum them sai sai rau cov ntsiab lus hauv qab no:
- Nkaub. Ib qho yuav tsum taug kev nrog meej mom, tab sis tsis muaj qhov khaus khav. Sab nraub qaum yuav tsum ncaj, lub xub pwg yuav tsum ncaj, thiab lub luag ntxhi yuav tsum tsis muaj kev tuav pov hwm.
- Khaub Ncaws. Cov tsos yuav tsum yog qhov muag-ntes, tab sis tsis dhau provocative lossis hais lus phem.
- Qhov chaw nyob. Cov neeg feem ntau pheej cam qhov muag ntawm lub qhov rooj, uas txhais tau tias koj yuav tsum tsis txhob tam sim ntawd sib xyaw nrog cov neeg coob coob. Koj yuav tsum tau ncua luv ntawm qhov chaw nkag thiab tshuaj xyuas cov neeg nyob ib ncig ntawm koj.
- Kev Sib Txuas Lus. Thaum xub thawj, nws yog qhov zoo dua rau qhov tsis kam ua lub tuam txhab xis nyob ntawm phooj ywg, chav tuav lossis rooj noj mov nrog zaub mov. Koj yuav tsum mus ncig hauv chav thiab, yog tias ua tau, qhia koj tus kheej rau cov neeg tsis paub. Qhov yooj yim thiab kev ua phooj ywg yog qhov zoo rau cov phooj ywg tshiab.
Kev Sib Txuas Lus
Lub ntsiab lus tseem ceeb hauv kev ua kom tau qhov kev zoo siab yog qhov kev sib tham nrog tus neeg tshiab. Txhawm rau ua kom tiav kev ua tiav, koj yuav tsum muaj peev xwm los qhia koj tus kheej kom raug. Nov yog qee qhov kev qhia kom paub siv:
- Qhov muag ntawm qhov muag yog qhov tseem ceeb heev, yog li saib koj tus interlocutor hauv qhov muag: ib nrab ntawm lub sijhawm hais lus yuav txaus. Yog tias lub sijhawm no tsawg dua, nws muaj kev pheej hmoo rau zoo li tsis muaj qhov tsis nco qab, yog tias ntau dua - muaj kev thab thiab dhau mus.
- Qhov luag nyav yog ib qho ua txais kev nyab xeeb. Nws yuav tsum thim rov qab nrog txoj kev sov siab, saib qhov tseeb.
- Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob muaj qhov hais ncaj thiab muab cov ntaub ntawv ntiag tug ntau dhau. Tus cwj pwm no tsuas yog ua rau lub siab tsis zoo nyob hauv kev teb.
- Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb tsis yog tham txog koj tus kheej nkaus xwb, tabsis tseem yuav tsum nug txog thiab. Qhov no yog qhov zoo uas yuav pib lossis tswj kev sib tham. Qhov loj tshaj plaws yog kom tsis txhob nug cov lus nug ntawm tus kheej thiab tsis tsim nyog uas tuaj yeem ua rau poob ntsej muag.
Tej zaum, txhua tus ntxhais, thaum nws pom thawj zaug hauv cov tuam txhab neeg coj txawv txawv, hnov me ntsis nyem thiab tsis xis nyob. Hauv cov xwm txheej zoo li no, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los mus ua koj tus kheej thiab tsis txhob sim kho rau cov neeg nyob ib puag ncig koj. Thiab muaj kev txaus siab ua tiag tiag, muaj lub ntsej muag luag ntxhi thiab qhuas txog qhov muaj txiaj ntsig zoo ntawm tus interlocutor yuav dhau los ua cov neeg pab cuam.
