Kev saib xyuas yog lub siab xav, tsom mus rau ib qho khoom lossis lub tswvyim. Los ntawm kev tswj cov txheej txheem no, ib tus neeg tau txais txoj hauv kev los cuam tshuam tus cwj pwm ntawm cov neeg puag ncig nws. Qhov no tsis yog qhov nyuaj kawm, koj tsuas yog yuav tsum paub cov tswv yim rau kev tswj hwm.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Kev ua tib zoo saib yog muaj txiaj ntsig thaum koj xav kos lub ntsej muag ntawm cov koom tes nrog kev lag luam lossis tsuas yog tus interlocutor mus rau cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb hauv kev sib tham. Muaj qhov ncaj thiab tsis ncaj ncaj. Ncaj nraim - thaum cov lus siv ncaj qha, xws li "nws yog qhov tseem ceeb yuav tsum ceeb toom," "Kuv thov koj kos koj lub siab," "nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau nco ntsoov tias," thiab lwm yam. Nrog kev qhia ncaj ncaj, cov nqe lus raug tsim tsa kom qhov chaw uas koj xav kom kos cov xim sawv ntsug hauv kev sib piv thiab cia li nyiam saib zoo.
Kauj ruam 2
Tau txais qhov muag pom ntawm tus neeg hais lus thiab tus mloog tso cai rau koj kom tus neeg ua hauj lwm sib txuas lus hauv kev sib tham thiab nws nyiam nws. Yog tias peb tab tom tham txog cov neeg coob coob, koj yuav tsum saib ib puag ncig nws thiab, kho nrog koj lub qhov muag ob peb tus neeg hloov pauv, coj kev sib tham.
Kauj ruam 3
Kuj tseem muaj txoj hauv kev los ua kom sib luag. Ib tug neeg lub siab tabtom khiav mus tas li, thiab yog tias nws tsis raug kho nyob rau hauv lub sijhawm, tsis tau muab txhais rau cov ncauj lus xav, qhov kev sib tham xav tau yuav tsis ua haujlwm. Nws yog nyob rau hauv rooj plaub no uas cov txheej txheem ntawm imposing lub suab paj nruag yog thov. Hloov cov yam ntxwv ntawm kev hais lus thiab lub suab - hais lus nrawm dua, qeeb qeeb, nyob siab dua, nrov siab, hais lus, qeeb. Ua tsaug rau qhov no, lub interlocutor yuav raug yuam kom muaj zog thiab tsis zoo li yuav plam qee yam tseem ceeb.
Kauj ruam 4
Siv cov txheej txheem "kev hais nruab nrab" - pib kev sib tham nrog ib kab lus uas tsis muaj feem cuam tshuam nrog cov ncauj lus ntawm kev sib tham, tab sis muaj feem xyuam rau tus interlocutor. Hauv qhov no, muaj kev nyiam tus kheej.
Kauj ruam 5
Cov txheej txheem ntawm kev siv paus tsis pub tso cai rau tus pib ntawm kev sib tham kom mloog zoo, thiab tus mloog los npaj rau kev nkag siab. Qhov kev ncua me me tso cai rau koj los mloog thiab txhawb qhov tseem ceeb ntawm cov lus dhau los.
Kauj Ruam 6
Kev paub txog kev tswj hwm kev saib xyuas, nws yooj yim dua rau kev sib txuas lus nrog menyuam yaus, coj kev sib tham ua lag luam, ua tus neeg paub, ua kev sib nkag siab. Ntxiv mus, cov hau kev no tuaj yeem mastered ncaj ncees sai.
